Sexy Jacques: How To Ask Someone On A Date + What To Do On A Date
ASKING SOME1 OUT ON A FIRST DATE
(THE RIGHT/ONLY WAY)
HOW TO ASK: I know texting is easy and talking on the phone is a bit of a lost art but if you pick up the phone to ask them out TRUST, it speaks volumes. You’ve gone up so many points in their book now because this shit NEVER happens anymore and calling should be the standard. It might be a bit awkward but whatever we’re adults right?
WHERE TO TAKE THEM: Date 1, it’s on you to make the plans. Now, no one’s saying spend a lot of money. In fact, I would say the opposite. Just put some basic thought into it. It can be a dinner but please make sure there is something incredible at this restaurant, like the best pomme frites in all of Manhattan or something and it’s not just a basic bitch of a restaurant even if it’s nice.
BE THOUGHTFUL +
MAKE THEM FEEL COMFORTABLE +
LISTEN: Ask them questions, listen to what they have to say. Women AND Men are attracted to people who appreciate their brain, their voice, not just the way they look. Respecting their mind is the way to their heart and lastly their body. Be yourself and be honest. We’re all weird so be weird together.
Talk about what interests and excites you more than yourself. If you know cool people, do cool things, keep that at a 6 instead of a ten. You don’t need to flex with the rolodex, it’s a date not a job interview.
*Let your awesomeness be felt and not heard.
The Kiss: Go for it. You got nothing to lose. If a first date goes well, kiss them but don’t expect anything more. Let’s be civilized.
These simple things can make or break a first date. I can tell you when I’ve been taken on a generic date, I question how much that person likes me. If the chemistry is there, these tipz will lead you to date 2 and hopefully many more delights.
-sexy Jacques OUT-